Types of Abuse


Examples of Abuse:
Physical           Any unwanted Physical Contact,  Kicking, Punching, Pinching, Pulling, Pushing, Force feeding, Spitting On, Tying Up, Breaking Bones, Knifing, Shooting, Hitting her with objects, Hair pulling, Slapping, Dragging, Beating, Murdering
Sexual: Any unwanted Sexual contact, Forced Sex, Forced Sex with Others, Forced Sex with Animals, Forced Pubic Hair Shaving, Pinching or Slapping or Grabbing or Poking Breasts and/or Genitals, Forced Sex after child birth or operations, Treating her as a Sex Object, Forcing her to pose for Pornographic Photos, Sexual Jokes, Name Calling, Sexual Comments In Public, Unwanted fondling in public, Degrading body parts.
Emotional: Making her do illegal things, False accusations, Name calling, Finding faults, Verbal threats, Yelling, Intimidation, Making her think she is stupid, Overpowering her emotions, Degrading, Brainwashing, Silence, Pressuring, Neglecting, Making her feel guilty, Manipulation, Starting arguments, Withholding affection, Lying, Treating her as a child.
Ritual: Mutilation, Animal mutilation, Forced cannibalism, Human sacrifices, Suggesting or promoting suicide, Forcing to participate in rituals, Forcing to witness rituals.
 Social: Put downs or ignoring in public, Controlling what she does, who she sees, who she talks to, what she reads, where she goes, Interfering with her family or friends, Making her account for herself, Treating her  like a servant, Dictating, Forcing her to stay home with the children, Buying off kids with expensive gifts, Justifying the abuse or dominance. 
Financial: Taking the money, Withholding money, Spending money foolishly or beyond means, Pressuring her to take full responsibility for financing, Not paying fair share of bills, Not spending money on special occasions-Birthdays, Spending on  an addiction or sexual services or gambling, Pressuring or controlling working conditions.
Environmental: Harming pets, Ripping clothing, Locking in or out of home, Throwing out or destroying her possessions, Slamming doors, Throwing objects, Taking away the phone, Driving to fast, Driving recklessly, Driving while intoxicated, Chasing her  with car.

Abuse During Pregnancy:

Forcing her to have an abortion, Insulting her body, Refusing sex on the ground that her pregnant body is ugly, Denial that the child is his, Refusing to support her during pregnancy, Not allowing her to put his name on the birth certificate,  Refusing to support her during the birth, Not supporting or helping after she comes home with the baby, Demanding sex after child birth.

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